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This weekend I was going to put myself up for a RP slave auction in a sim I've been checking out, but I was too late learning about it and registering and all of the spots are gone. Slave auctions were something I'd never have said yes to at one point, I hate not having any control over who I'm playing with... But the last, and probably only time I got talked into an auction, it turned out really well: I met somebody great and it opened up a lot of RP. If there's something I've learned about roleplay, bondage etc, it's that you regret the risks you didn't take a lot more than the things you tried that turned out badly. (Online at least. I don't really regret declining any invitation I've had to visit somebody's house alone.)
So here I am with my plans changed, telling myself maybe I avoided a painfully awkward experience, maybe I'll find something better to do.
I've been trying to get involved in the "urban" sims again. To be honest I'm still not really sure where I stand on former obsession with a particular superhero character and right now I feel like maybe I said the last thing I needed to say and finally got over it, so, I'm kind of taking a break from superhero RP in general. Maybe the whole thing is kind of weird and regressive and unhealthy, and as far as superheroine-in-peril RP in Second Life goes, anything but one-on-one scenes has been a failed experiment.
And so I come to something I've probably ruminated on before: I'm not sure what's left for me in Second Life RP. A couple of times in the past I had a foothold in a sim via a really good boss/employee relationship with somebody. Those people have all stopped logging in, and I'm sure they had good reasons, but it makes me wonder if Second Life itself is over as a roleplay environment. A lot of sims have closed, and some of them were long past their time, but some of them served a distinct niche and nothing is replacing them.
What I keep thinking is: Maybe people are abandoning SL and doing great RP somewhere else and I just don't know where that is? Seriously, I feel like there's somewhere online people are still doing kidnap/peril RP and I'm just really out of the loop.
Is roleplay just a kids' thing and people grow out of it? I mean, sorry guys, I've seen what passes for roleplay on DeviantArt, and it's just people posting "i kidnap u". (And this comes under frequently asked questions: "Do you roleplay?" Yes, but not on here and probably not how you're thinking.)
And yeah, there are still people on SL, I've still got friends. I can pretty much do a one-off scene whenever I want. But it's not one-offs I'm really looking for right now, I want to do things that matter in terms of a consistent setting.
And maybe this is all just self-pity because obviously there's still kidnap roleplay going on because there's a slave auction going on, I'll just never know exactly how in tune with my interests it would have been.
So here I am with my plans changed, telling myself maybe I avoided a painfully awkward experience, maybe I'll find something better to do.
I've been trying to get involved in the "urban" sims again. To be honest I'm still not really sure where I stand on former obsession with a particular superhero character and right now I feel like maybe I said the last thing I needed to say and finally got over it, so, I'm kind of taking a break from superhero RP in general. Maybe the whole thing is kind of weird and regressive and unhealthy, and as far as superheroine-in-peril RP in Second Life goes, anything but one-on-one scenes has been a failed experiment.
And so I come to something I've probably ruminated on before: I'm not sure what's left for me in Second Life RP. A couple of times in the past I had a foothold in a sim via a really good boss/employee relationship with somebody. Those people have all stopped logging in, and I'm sure they had good reasons, but it makes me wonder if Second Life itself is over as a roleplay environment. A lot of sims have closed, and some of them were long past their time, but some of them served a distinct niche and nothing is replacing them.
What I keep thinking is: Maybe people are abandoning SL and doing great RP somewhere else and I just don't know where that is? Seriously, I feel like there's somewhere online people are still doing kidnap/peril RP and I'm just really out of the loop.
Is roleplay just a kids' thing and people grow out of it? I mean, sorry guys, I've seen what passes for roleplay on DeviantArt, and it's just people posting "i kidnap u". (And this comes under frequently asked questions: "Do you roleplay?" Yes, but not on here and probably not how you're thinking.)
And yeah, there are still people on SL, I've still got friends. I can pretty much do a one-off scene whenever I want. But it's not one-offs I'm really looking for right now, I want to do things that matter in terms of a consistent setting.
And maybe this is all just self-pity because obviously there's still kidnap roleplay going on because there's a slave auction going on, I'll just never know exactly how in tune with my interests it would have been.
Now is the Winter of our Discord
I've been watching the state of DA and the steady trickle of an exodus for a while, and although I'm not entirely quitting any time soon, I do feel the need for at least a backup and a place where I don't have to worry so much about arbitrary standards. (The wording regarding "fringe fetishes" in particular really rubs me the wrong way.) Flickr? I tried it because the SL people seem to be there, but haven't seen a lot of response. ArtUntamed? Small community and nearly as restrictive as DA. Pixiv? I'm just not weeby enough. I've already soft-launched a Discord server where I've posted some previously unseen pictures. This is going to be an outlet for anything I expect to cause issues on DA, and maybe unedited pics that wouldn't meet my personal standards for my DA gallery. Membership does not imply access to York Manor in Second Life. I'm happy to chat occasionally but please respect my time.
The Kill Me, I'm 40 Contest Winners
And here I am on the other side of 40. I'd really like to thank everybody for their messages, submissions and other tributes. I'm overwhelmed by the response to this contest and it was far from easy to judge. Our First Prize winner: @blknght1000us managed to tie in the theme while hitting on my known kinks (totally not against the rules) and I just love the urgency of this piece. Congratulations! Second Prize: @member9's piece is so stylish and classic! Third Prize: Due to the high quality of submissions I'm going to award a Diamond Badge to three Third Prize winners. I knew @MollyFootman would deliver, with one of the rougher but classiest submissions! A very nice depiction from @el-korruption with an accompanying story! There's a lack of menace to @Euel's submission but I like the more playful tone. Again, I never said you couldn't appeal to my kinks... Runner Up Prize I'm giving an Emerald Badge to each of these. I love @perilfancier's kinky tribal/cannibal themes
The EnglishDamsel: Kill Me, I'm 40 Contest
I have a milestone birthday coming up on the 25th. Maybe I could keep it quiet and stay 39 forever, but I'm willing to embrace maturity. The fact is though, every definition of "damsel" includes the word "young", so it's time to see this era off with a bang... Welcome to the EnglishDamsel "Kill Me, I'm 40" Contest. I'm seeking deviations depicting me in peril. That's open to interpretation, but it should be damsel-in-distress peril of the life-threatening, imminent demise variety. I'll personally judge my favourite submissions and they'll be rewarded. First Prize: 3,500 Points and a Diamond Badge. Second Prize: 1,500 Points and a Diamond Badge. Third Prize: Diamond Badge. Additional badges and rewards may be granted to other submissions at my discretion. Of course I'll welcome any birthday gift art that doesn't fit the theme of the contest. This is just something special to mark the occasion. Deviations can be submitted by posting them in comments on this journal entry, or
About Bmovievillain
This will be the first day I don't check Bmovievillain's page as soon as I can to see if there are new pictures of me. I'd like to talk mostly about Bmovievillain. I miss Femfan1 as well. We didn't talk much but he did a really nice Miss Britain, did some fun things with her, and she always seemed to top his polls. (I felt guilty because she would really slaughter those polls, but you guys seem to like Miss Britain...) So this is looking like a ban wave of the more hardcore "women in peril" 3D artists. I always suspected Bmovievillain's stuff could cross the line, but he'd said he'd had things removed and then reinstated, so I liked to think that for whatever reason he was safe. It's not so much the loss of the art that bothers me - if Bmovie is out there I know he has an archive of his own work. More than anything it's the loss of the years of comments that went with it. I always enjoyed seeing people like @whazzuphere and @toomerlot responding. Knowing this day could come, I did
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I'm one of those who left SL a few years back. I went back yesterday and.... all my stuff was missing. None of my clothes worked, and I was a giant gassy cloud of confusion. I used to have my own bit of land and some coin, and remember fondly chatting with FranciePants, Mistress Ellen, Mistress Carrasco, Agent Knave and many others. Yesterday, the place was a ghost town. It all seemed very confusing and unfamiliar.
I left it originally because my roleplaying had evolved to where most of it was rotating paragraphs in private chat, and it didn't even really matter what 'scene' was going on in front of my eyes. And I realized I could just as easily do that in IMs and PMs, IMVU and elsewhere.
Still, I may give this SL 2.0 a look once they iron out all the bugs.
I left it originally because my roleplaying had evolved to where most of it was rotating paragraphs in private chat, and it didn't even really matter what 'scene' was going on in front of my eyes. And I realized I could just as easily do that in IMs and PMs, IMVU and elsewhere.
Still, I may give this SL 2.0 a look once they iron out all the bugs.